Sunday, November 23, 2014

Does romance kill men's sex drive?

                                                                      
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          It's no secret that women have more of a soft spot for chick flicks than men do, but new research may explain just why that is.
            According to a study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, not only does romance not appeal to men in the same way it does to women, but it actually lessens their sex drives.In fact, male participants in the experiment were more turned on by video clips from a documentary about English history than they were by the famous first kiss scene in Titanic.'Their sexuality is more dependent on the relationship context,' says Dr Dewitte, explaining that this difference is due to gender roles in evolution.'For women, the attachment system is more important, so the partner stays with them and raises the child. So it makes sense that sexuality is much more related to the relationship.' Further proof of this has been seen in studies in which women are shown porn movies. 'Their body reacts - they’re genitally aroused - but they don’t feel anything,' says Dr Dewitte.However, 'we know that if you let women watch porn that is more female-oriented, embedded in a story, they respond with more sexual arousal.'Dr Dewitte's study involved 86 men and 78 women who were analyzed as they watched three different video clips.
   For women, the attachment system is more important, so the partner stays with them and raises the child
          The first was of a couple having sex; the second was the scene in Titanic where Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet have their first kiss, followed by a romantic clip from 1993's Indecent Proposal; and the third was part of a documentary about English history.Then the participants were asked to report how they felt, both mentally and physically, as well as complete a survey to measure how much they wanted sex afterwards.For women, the number one turn-on were the clips from Titanic and Indecent Proposal, which won out even over the sex scenes.This, according to the authors, is because women are more sexually stimulated by fantasy, which they can conjure up by watching romantic scenes. Unsurprisingly, men felt more inclined to have sex after watching the explicit video.What is surprising, however, is that the men were more likely to desire sex after watching the history documentary than they were after watching the Titanic scene - indicating that they are actually physically turned off by romance. The study did.Via.daily mail
Men over to you are these findings true?

4 comments:

  1. Its true to an extent. I don't really like those slow motion procedures. But if d woman wants it. I could try a little

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    1. Mmmmmmm but seriously what is s*x without romance? Cus for me romance turns every lady can she can go to the extreme if it is done way. You knw what I mean. Wink

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    2. Lol. Yeah. I've noticed it

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  2. No wonder some guys just want to go in there wet or dry without considering the lady in question, #noromancenosex

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