Jane Makhloufi, 47, from Leeds, was swept off her feet by
32-year-old Mohamed after meeting him online when her first marriage collapsed,
the grandmother-of-ten who stunned her family by marrying a Tunisian toy-boy
she met online is begging the Home Office to grant him a visa and has vowed to
convert to Islam for him. She said: 'Plenty of people think it is a scam but I
know it's not. He has told me many times that he doesn't want to be with any
other woman. He only wants to be with me.'People think all Tunisian men are love-rats but they need
to get their facts right. There are love-rats all over the world, even in
England.
All the men I met in Tunisia with my husband were really
nice. If I thought for one minute it was a scam, I wouldn't have married him. I
would have just stayed on my own.
'We've been married two years now. If it was a scam he would
have left me by now. 'When he comes here I want to convert to Islam and wear a
hijab. He hasn't said anything about it. It is my decision. If I want to do it
I will do it.'
Mrs Makhloufi met Mohamed, a former coffee shop worker, on a
social networking site soon after ending her 'unhappy' marriage of 26 years in
2011.
She said she was instantly attracted to him but was even
more impressed by the fact he wasn't 'sleazy' or 'only after one thing'.
After exchanging increasingly flirtatious messages, she took
the plunge and flew to the coastal city of Sousse to meet him face-to-face.
The keen knitter said she was nervous at first but was
instantly won over by not only his looks but how polite and chivalrous he was.
She said he held doors open in front of her and took her out
for exotic meals on the beach.
'He was so different to the men back in England,' she said.
'When I met him he was a proper gentleman. He was clean and
respectable. In the end we couldn't keep our hands off each other.'
After 10-15 more trips to Tunisia, she was delighted when
Mohamed finally popped the question and she didn't hesitate to accept.
But not everyone was happy with their romance.
'Some of the people in Tunisia didn't like it,' said Mrs
Makhloufi, who admits she had only been looking for fun to start with. 'They
would say: "Why are you with an English woman, a bigger woman?"And he would just reply: "Because I want to be with an
English woman, not a Tunisian woman.The pair were married on October 18, 2012, and Mrs Makhloufi
describes it as the happiest day of her life.
The ceremony was vibrant and lavish and the bride wore a
traditional North African wedding dress and intricate henna tattoos on her arms
while the groom was dressed in a dark suit.
But their joy was short lived when, instead of coming home
to live in her second floor Leeds council flat, Mohamed was refused a Visa
because his English was poor.
And, even when it vastly improved with his new wife's help,
he was again turned away because the UK Border Agency believed she could not
support him if he failed to get a job.
As an immigrant he would have to be a resident for
two-and-a-half years before he could claim benefits.Instead, Mohammed travelled to Dublin, Ireland, after
getting an EU Visa in 'three weeks' and has been there the last four months looking
for work.
To survive he cooks and cleans for friends in return for a
bed and food. His devoted wife sends him money when she can and even encourages
him to pass it on to his family in Tunisia, who she says were always very
welcoming.
Mrs Makhloufi, who suffers from rheumatoid arthritis and
osteoarthritis which keeps her out of work, said the stress of the situation is
starting to make her illness worse.
She flies to see him in Ireland as many times as she can and
when they are apart they speak every night on the phone or over a live video
link.
They talk so much that some of her grandchildren, who
regularly visit, now jokingly refer to him as their 'second grandad.'
Not all of her family, many of whom are almost the same age
as her husband, are happy with the union while others are content to just 'see
her happy'.
Mohamed, who was previously worked as a builder in Tunisia,
said he hopes to come to the UK and prove his doubters wrong.But most of all he wants to make up for his wife's
generosity towards him.
He said: 'She is a good woman with a tender, soft heart.
Every time I have been in need she has always been there.She has treated me well, with a lot of respect and always
understands me. I've found in her what I never found in others. I hope to build
a real life together.I've really suffered being away from her. I've been so
stressed day after day and I feel hopeless and lost.
I know some people think it is fake but I'm not bothered
what they say. At the end of the day all that matter is that I am with her and
she is with me and the others cannot bother us.'
Meanwhile, Mrs Makhloufi said she will continue to fight for
her husband's 'right' to come to the UK and live with her.
And, although she sees little hope at present, she is
adamant she will not give up without a fight.
'No one should have to leave their husband behind,' she
said.
'All I want is for us to have a life together. All I want is
for my husband to be here with me. See the letter below.
Via.daily mail
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