Adaeze
took to Instagram earlier today with a pictorial message of how she has made
her 4-year marriage work, indirecting telling other ladies to drop their egos
for their respective marriages to work well.
According to her, “This reminded me so much of the first 2years of my marriage
(when i had too much ego, it was all about me and what "I deserve") I
will always randomly have in mind that my husband shld know "we gotta go
out" i wld seat my ass down all the time and just get mad, I mean doesn't
he know? I won't even tell him nonsense!
It wasn't that i desperately wanted to go out cos most of the time, we did we
had nothing to say to each other but my "i deserve mentality" my
after all, i'm the woman" "the queen" mentality, was my
motivating factor. Just texting or calling my hubby to say "hey babe,
there is this restaurant that makes the best prawns (his fav) let's casually go
after yur training. Was what I shld hav said but here is what I actually said
for 2 years, "Joe (which is what I call him wen am mad)everybody went to
that restaurant on that street and even last night this persons husband took
her".
Then he goes from 0-100 in like 2.2 secs and then my ego kicks in. (You don't
want to know how fast I also went kuku)and no one ends up eating I always said
to the pple that i complain to, "How dare he? just cos I want us to go out
and have a nice dinner, dont i Deserve it eh"? Anyway, the moral of this
(long) story, is that when I changed from my "i deserve" mentality to
"we deserve" slowly, the tables turned.
Now he makes our date plan calender for a month i lost out on seeing that soft
amazing person he is for the first 2years cos I was always ready to fire, after
all he Should have read the manual before marriage,"she wrote.
Via.
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She is right some ladies has ruin their marriages because of their big Ego
ReplyDeleteOh yaaaa I got a real BIG EGO #inBeyonce&Kanyewestvoice
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